Dating/Friendships

I accidentally got a little chubby. It’s going to take months to get back into shape, so I thought it would be more fun to talk to someone about new experiences good and bad, and gets some tips for dealing with the added pounds. Maybe even get teased a little if I keep getting bigger instead of trimming down. Or have challenges like lose two pounds in a week or complete x amount of stuffings. Maybe the teasing and punishments will whip me back into shape, or maybe it’ll sabotage my beach bod… either way, I’ve already packed on this much and it’s not going away overnight, might as well have some fun.

I'm sure you used to be quite athletic... go on long runs or spend all day sweating just to reward yourself with something tasty. But, life gets in the way, it just got harder and harder to maintain that lifestyle... but the reward of food never left...

It just tasted so good and face it, you loved the feeling of being full. You kept telling yourself that you'd work out later, or tomorrow...

But why? Why reward yourself after a workout when you can just reward yourself? So kick off your shoes and put on something cozy, you deserve it.

It feels so guilty, but the guiltier you feel the better the experience. A burger from McDonalds feels so dirty... so order 5. Eat until you feel gross, then eat more. Remember what you used to be, then give in to the pleasure of just one more bite. Remember what you used to have to do to burn all of those calories, then consume some more

Gain, lose, maintain... sweetheart you already know the direction you're headed, so enjoy it.

I’m not far from Chicago — you look fantastic and I’d love to help you decide which side of that fence to fall on by taking you out to dinner and treating you to all your favorite foods 😏

DM me if you want to chat.